simple

it's very simple. you can do whatever you want, given that you take the basic initiative to keep me updated. yet time and again you prove to be incapable of it. even after a reminder. you want the freedom to go and have fun with your friends, then you have it. but apparently it is too much to ask from you to be accountable, while having fun. i have always held firmly the belief that it is utter nonsense that one cannot take a single minute off one's time to be accountable, and hence responsible. before you may want to rebut, do think it over; surely one could have found the minimal time and effort, unless one was fully preoccupied the entire time, every single second. and by that it is commonsensical to read it as one was talking, or commuting, or handling other sorts of busyness, nonstop for the entirety of the timeframe over the few hours.

if this is the same standard that you are alright with receiving, then very well, your wish will be granted.